Hoarding is not collection development
Follow us on:
Categories
Making a Collection Count

Dating Tips for Teens

Love and Dating
Eager
1994

This book looked older than 1994. I would have sworn late 1980s, tops. The advice is not that bad and mostly common sense stuff. The illustrations are awful and that alone would make it weedable, in my opinion. (I can just imagine my teen patrons rolling eyes at this one.)

Ladies, I encourage you to take a look at how to rate with guys. Obviously, we need to all examine our “ladylike” behavior. (The book doesn’t give us details on what that behavior might mean.)

Mary

More Teen Love:

Teen Sex or Teen Dating?

Say Yes to No

Taking all the fun out of sex

Teen Feelings


24 Responses to Dating Tips for Teens

  • I could’ve sworn I’d seen these exact illustrations on Simplicity pattern packages from 1986… 😛

    But anyway, a really good contemporary book on this topic would cover consent issues, sexting, and would make sure to include LGBTQIA people. Hell, compress down the whole Scarleteen website and publish that as a book.

  • That illustrator gives the black teens comical lips?

    Those names? Rick Rogers? I cant believe this book would ever have circulated.

  • I have to admit I like the “That’s a line” section. All to often, kids are told “just say no” without being given the tools to do so.

  • Ah yes, the age old tradition of questionable artists taking “inspiration” from photos, in this case actors and scenes from “Saved by the Bell.”

  • If you don’t want “fear, worry and guilt” in your marriage don’t have sex before hand? What utter nonsense! My wife and I have been married for over 15 years and we had plenty of sex before marriage. And talk about creepy, the story of the two guys…he’s so glad his friend didn’t make his future wife “impure”…talk about treating women like property.

  • For an evangelical Christian advice book, this appears (from the excerpts you’ve shown) to be remarkably non-preachy Here’s more about Mr. Eager: .http://mailboxclub.org/J336/index.php/about/history

  • I think women should be leery of an author named George B Eager….

    • I thought so too! That cannot be his real name, can it?? He looked creepy to me in that photo as well. That smile…

    • …who has an engineering degree yet loves talking to teens about sex and how they should act!

      • There’s a term for people who think that being a recognized expert in one field makes them expert in all fields. On the other hand, books by people like Alan Nourse, while older, were written by someone who had training and experience in what they were writing on.

      • I thought the same thing LOL

  • No mention of same-sex attraction and telling you to save it for marriage. Is this book really from 1994?

    • Maybe same-sex attraction is covered in “Three Kinds of Love.” Yeah, I didn’t think so either 😉

  • “How can I attract someone of the opposite sex (the answer might surprise you!)”
    Ham Sandwich and bear trap?
    Duck call?

  • Oh good gravy. What an odd book!

  • I was 18 in 1994, we would have thought this book odd and cheesy then. Seventeen Magazine was our source for dating and relationship advice.

  • That picture on page 88 reminds me of the old board game “Mystery Date.”

  • The creepy idea that sex is something girls “give” to guys is straight out of the Victorian era. Eurgh.
    also, if that list were realistic about what guys care about in girls it would read:
    1. looks
    2. looks
    3. looks
    4. looks
    5. money
    6. looks
    7. looks
    8. looks
    9. willingness to put up with anything
    10. looks